The Velvet CollarPrivate membership
Adults-only private community

Where trust is worn, not merely promised.

The Velvet Collar is a discreet BDSM community centred on consent, respect, safety and meaningful connection. Membership begins with a secure payment and a confidential screening conversation.

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18+ onlyConsent-firstDiscreet communication
Nigeria₦2,000monthly · ₦1,000 late fee
International₦3,000monthly · ₦2,000 late fee
DiscretionConsentTrust

A private space shaped by clear principles.

01

Consent without ambiguity

Boundaries are discussed, respected and never treated as optional.

02

Discretion by design

Payment notices and membership communication remain neutral and private.

03

Connection with intention

Screening protects the quality, safety and atmosphere of the group.

Private entry

Your invitation begins here.

Complete the form using the details connected to your WhatsApp account. After verified payment, your discreet confirmation email will contain your private dashboard and screening-room links.

  1. 1
    Submit your details

    Provide your name, email, WhatsApp number and country.

  2. 2
    Complete secure payment

    Nigerian payments use Paystack. International payments use Stripe.

  3. 3
    Continue to screening

    Speak privately with an administrator before group access is approved.

Your payment descriptor and email subject remain discreet. Membership is restricted to adults aged 18 and above.

Begin membership

Complete your details and continue to the secure payment page.

Include + and your country code with no spaces, for example +2348012345678.

Payment provider: Paystack

Nigeria payments are processed securely through Paystack.

How would you like to pay?